And this is so true, because we are not a great big perception, which is almost always ready to diminish us, we are. We just are, something much bigger than that!
And though we could be perfectly in touch with ourselves and with others, we prefer to be in touch with our fantasy world, where we can argue for ages with our splited parts and our unclear intentions and our foreseen endings, but we make it ok. The simple reason is that there is so much more comfort in that and so less exposure that makes it worthy and sustainable.
It is rare to experience a life changing moment that will actually persuade our so developed left brain to quit our worthless little game with our fantasy world, but that's all it takes. A moment of realizing that fantasy holds no reality, that fantasy holds fear, holds blame, hold not taking any responsibility, holds excuses and holds you back. That's all it does. It is the perfect distraction in disguise, because it happens with a very intellectual process and we do come up with some really good arguments, so it is well disguised and we are well evolved.
This is how learning- the way life does it not books-, it is about realizing that something is possible, that we can come out of our bubbles, maybe stumbling to begin with, but able and entitled to!
But because there is no room for rehearsals out there, your weapon is your moment to moment "wait and see", no guarantee, just the unknown. And believe me, it still feels good!!
Meet you out there,